Post by kdubs on Mar 22, 2009 22:19:54 GMT 12
So I have this slight obsession.. reading romance novels. But only recently have I seen the negative affect they can have. I mean I don't think it is wrong to read books with a different view on things than a Christian... but lately I've noticed a change in my thinking for the worst. I love a good story as much as the next guy but a recent book I found on my host-mom's shelf had some pretty over the top steamy 'scenes'.
And just sitting in bed after reading it I could feel my brain start to turn and almost believe it was okay for certain things like those wild fantasies in the book to happen. I mean, this is just a story on the beginning of Australia as a penal colony.. But hidden in those worn pages are some pretty steamy romances and encounters. Now I never put down a book but I felt so.. ashamed..bashful..scared.. to think my mind was starting to argue with biblical concepts on true, accepting, (and what should be MARITAL) love.
That is where my research came in this morning of How far is too far? (read post in Dating)
so anyways i gave my story of why.. now I'll tie it back. I don't want to ruin my view on love or spoil what God has in store for me with my future husband by reading some filth and erotic fantasies of some author.. I feel for women it is almost as bad as guys reading playboy! It's a worldly degradation of the image love should take on. Anyways I sound like a horrible person for reading such junk and just realized how bad it was so suddenly..
My point is, I would like to have some good clean wholesome book referrals so i can read some Christian - (Authored or other) books. For reading so plays a large role in my life that I need good books!!
cheers!
And just sitting in bed after reading it I could feel my brain start to turn and almost believe it was okay for certain things like those wild fantasies in the book to happen. I mean, this is just a story on the beginning of Australia as a penal colony.. But hidden in those worn pages are some pretty steamy romances and encounters. Now I never put down a book but I felt so.. ashamed..bashful..scared.. to think my mind was starting to argue with biblical concepts on true, accepting, (and what should be MARITAL) love.
That is where my research came in this morning of How far is too far? (read post in Dating)
so anyways i gave my story of why.. now I'll tie it back. I don't want to ruin my view on love or spoil what God has in store for me with my future husband by reading some filth and erotic fantasies of some author.. I feel for women it is almost as bad as guys reading playboy! It's a worldly degradation of the image love should take on. Anyways I sound like a horrible person for reading such junk and just realized how bad it was so suddenly..
My point is, I would like to have some good clean wholesome book referrals so i can read some Christian - (Authored or other) books. For reading so plays a large role in my life that I need good books!!
cheers!